Top tips for better mental health this winter

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Winter isn’t usually the easiest season for anybody struggling with their mental health. Even those who breeze through the rest of the year can find their general mood lagging around this time, with increased stress levels, anxiety and even depression. This year could prove especially challenging too, thanks to recent lockdown rules and mounting pressures around issues such as finances, health and the wellbeing of loved ones. If things feel a little tough right now or you’re worried about the months that lie ahead, here are some suggestions to try out – it’s time to look after ourselves.

Get moving
Getting your daily activity in doesn’t have to mean sweating it out with high impact workouts. While the government suggests adults should aim to take part in at least 150 minutes of moderate intensity physical activity each week, you might need to work up to that. It’s important to listen to your body and pick a form of movement that works for you – whether that’s a brisk walk around the park, or a slow vinyasa on the yoga mat come 7pm. Whichever form you choose, evidence has shown that exercise can boost mood and reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression. And the best thing? It needn’t cost a penny.

Talk it out
Sometimes just talking can help. When speaking to a friend or family member isn’t enough any more, consider accessing NHS talking therapies. They can help you cope with feelings of anxiety and depression. Therapies such as CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) can prove so effective that researchers have discovered they can actually change our brain’s wiring. If you find yourself experiencing increased levels of stress or anxiety on a daily basis, seek help via your GP who can refer you (those in England can also self-refer via NHS.uk/talk).

Pay it forward
It turns out Jerry Springer might have had a point with his much-loved catchphrase (“take care of yourself and each other” for the uninitiated). Research suggests that acts of giving and kindness can help improve your mental wellbeing by creating positive feelings and a sense of reward, giving you a feeling of purpose and self-worth, helping you connect with other people. If you know of any younger people or children who need support – and many could really do with an extra helping hand right about now – the NHS-approved website Every Mind Matters has plenty of tips and advice.

Mature man sitting at window, reading a book
Appreciate the easy win of finding time to read a book. Photograph: Westend61/Getty Images

Seek out small pleasures
A few pages of a book on the sofa before you start making dinner. Surprising a loved one by FaceTiming them instead of playing endless WhatsApp tennis. An impromptu dance session with the kids in place of those punishing daily lunges or kettlebell swings. Focus on finding joy in the small things instead of chasing those big goals or milestones – and notice when you manage to find it. Practising gratitude – either verbally or by writing down those small wins – can help improve mental health and wellbeing.

Breathe mindfully
If phrases such as “mindful breathing” usually prompt an eye roll, it’s worth rethinking your stance. Focusing on the present, rather than worrying about the future, can help with difficult emotions and improve wellbeing. Awareness of this kind also helps us notice signs of stress or anxiety earlier and helps us deal with them better. Mindfulness is recommended by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence as a way to prevent depression in people who have had three or more bouts of depression in the past. So it figures that mindful breathing exercises can help to decrease stress and anxiety. Start with a simple breathing exercise (try the Every Mind Matters YouTube channel) and don’t worry if you don’t feel totally zen – it can take practice.

Use tech wisely
Tech has got a bad rap lately, but most of us would have been lost this year without our beloved devices and apps (yes, even those dreaded Zoom quizzes). Every Mind Matters has a helpful selection of recommended mental health apps to trawl through – from psychologist-designed apps to increase your emotional fitness to CBT-based ones to improve self-esteem. But don’t forget to carve out offline time, too – especially when it comes to social media. While social media can help provide a sense of community, connections to social support and give you access to mental health services, studies have suggested a link between heavy use and increased risk of depression, anxiety and loneliness, especially among young people.

Portrait of a young man on the phone indoors
Excessive use of social media has been linked to an increased risk of anxiety. Photograph: RoBeDeRo/Getty Images

Related: 10 ways to maintain all-round wellbeing this winter

Head outside
Spending time outside is linked to better mood and lower levels of anxiety, particularly when you’re surrounded by nature. It can help boost immune systems, encourage physical activity and may reduce the risk of chronic diseases such as asthma. Systematic reviews have found that greater exposure to green space enhances quality of life for both children and adults. For example, The Monitor of Engagement with the Natural Environment (MENE) survey gives an annual snapshot of people’s recreational visits to the natural environment in England. Recent analysis of data from the MENE survey indicates that adults who had two hours of recreational activity per week in green space are more likely to have better self-reported health and wellbeing than those who do not. Walking isn’t a prerequisite either – the ancient Japanese practice of shinrin-yoku (“forest bathing”) is gaining traction here too. Head towards your nearest tree-filled nature spot and soak up the goodness (phone firmly off, of course).

Break negative thought cycles
It’s all too easy to develop negative and unhelpful thought patterns that can have a detrimental influence on the way we think, feel and behave. But recognising when you do this can help improve your mental health and wellbeing. Every Mind Matters advises the “Catch it, check it, change it” approach, which helps to reframe thinking around perceived problems. If you can catch the negative thought while you’re experiencing it, and check it by investigating why you feel this way, you’re in a better position to change the pattern, and try to replace the thought with a more realistic one, to find a way out. This won’t work all the time, and there are no right or wrong answers, but with practice it’s possible to think more flexibly and feel more in control.

Young adult woman relaxing at home, sitting on the sofa.
Replacing negative thoughts with more realistic ones can improve mental health. Photograph: FilippoBacci/Getty Images

Prioritise those Zs
Sleep and stress are closely linked and there’s never been a more important time to focus on getting enough shut-eye. While sleep problems usually sort themselves out within about a month, longer stretches of bad sleep can start to affect our lives. If you’re having sleep problems, there are simple steps you can take to ease those restless nights. For instance, you can improve your chances by sticking to a sleep routine where possible – heading to bed and rising at roughly the same time and ditching technology a couple of hours before bedtime. If you are lying awake unable to sleep, do not force it. Get up and do something relaxing for a bit, and return to bed when you feel sleepier.

If you need help for a mental health crisis, emergency or breakdown, NHS urgent mental health helplines offer 24-hour advice and support for people of all ages. Find a local helpline here: nhs.uk/urgentmentalhealth

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